1. She cancels at the last minute.
2. She’s always “busy” when you ask her out.
3. She never initiates contact with you.
4. She talks about other guys in front of you.
5. She always has an excuse for why she can’t see you.
If you’re experiencing any of these signs, chances are she’s just not that into you, and you should move on.
She’s Not Responding To Your Texts
You had a great first date. You felt a real connection with her, and you’re pretty sure she felt it too. So you text her the next day to ask her out again, but she doesn’t respond. You wait a day or two and try again, but still nothing. Has she lost interest? Is there something you did wrong?
It’s possible that she’s just not interested in you, but it’s also possible that she’s just not ready to commit to another date yet. If you really want to give it another shot, there are a few things you can try:
1. Send her a short, friendly text asking how she’s doing and if she’d like to meet up for coffee or lunch sometime soon.
2. If she doesn’t respond to that, try sending a longer text or even giving her a call. If she still doesn’t respond, it’s probably time to give up.
3. If you do end up talking to her, don’t bring up the fact that you tried to reach out to her multiple times. Just act like it never happened and pick up the conversation from where you left off the last time you talked.
She’s Making Excuses Not To See You
It’s not you, it’s her. If she cancels plans or seems really busy when you’re trying to make plans with her, it’s a strong sign that she doesn’t want a second date. If she quickly changes the subject when you bring up future plans together, it means she’s not interested in seeing you again.
She’s Not As Interested In Conversation
If you find that your conversations with her are quite one-sided, and she’s doing most of the talking, it could be a sign that she’s not as interested in you. She might be trying to make conversation, but if she’s not really engaging with you, it could be because she’s not that into you.
She’s Not Laughing At Your Jokes
body language is really important when it comes to figuring out if a person is into you or not. If your cracks aren’t landing and she’s not even bothering to fake it, that’s a bad sign. Also, if she’s crossing her arms or legs, that means she’s closed off and not into the date.
She’s Not Touching You
You want to know if she’s into you or not, but unfortunately, reading body language isn’t always easy. Sometimes, all you have to go off of is how she behaves around you. If she’s not touching you when you’re around each other, it could mean that she’s not interested in you.
There are a few ways to tell if someone is into you or not by the way they touch you. For example, if someone is interested in you, they might:
-touch your arm while talking to you
-give you a hug, goodbye
-touch your hand while making a point
If she’s not doing any of those things around you, it could be a sign that she’s not interested in you. Of course, there could be other reasons why she’s not touching you (e.g., she’s shy, doesn’t want to seem ” too forward,” etc.), so it’s best to look at this behavior in combination with other signs before drawing any conclusions.
She’s Not Complimenting You
One of the surefire signs she doesn’t want a second date is if she isn’t complimenting you. It’s not that she has to tell you that you look like Brad Pitt, but if she’s never saying anything nice about you, it means she’s not really into you.
She’s Disengaged in Conversation
Another sign she’s not interested is if she seems disengaged when you’re talking to her. This could mean she’s not making eye contact, or she’s constantly looking around the room. If she seems bored or disinterested in what you’re saying, it’s a pretty good indication that she doesn’t want to go on a second date with you.
She’s Not Asking You Questions
If someone is interested in you, they’ll want to know more about you. So, if she’s not asking you any questions, it could be a sign that she doesn’t care to know more about you. This is especially true if you’re doing all the talking and she’s just sitting there listening.
She Keeps Making Excuses
If she keeps making excuses for why she can’t see you or why she has to leave early, it could be a sign that she’s not interested in a second date. If her reasons seem farfetched or there are always last-minute cancellations, it might be best to move on.
She’s Not Asking You Questions
Body language can be a great way to gauge how someone is feeling, but sometimes it’s not enough. If you’re on a first date and the person you’re with isn’t asking you any questions, it might be a sign that they’re not interested. Instead of trying to pry information out of them, pay attention to the conversation (or lack thereof) and see if it’s a one-way street.
She’s Avoiding Future Plans
A woman who isn’t interested in a second date will often be evasive when you try to make plans. If you suggest getting together next week and she says she’s not sure yet, that’s a pretty clear sign that she doesn’t want to commit. She might also change the subject whenever you bring up the topic of future plans. If you get the sense that she’s trying to steer the conversation away from talk of second dates, it’s likely because she doesn’t want one.